These events in my life tell a story about me but also gave me a better understanding of aspects of my life.
It was my freshman year and my best friend came over to stay with me. We would always think up excuses so we could go drive around town, so we decided we were going to go get a pop from up town. I drove our Ford Expedition which was not the best vehicle to be driving in the snow and sleet. The roads were iced down and it was the middle of winter. We tried to make a U-turn on Main Street and as we whipped around a pole got in our way. My friend was horrified so we tried to play it cool like we weren’t going fast or that it was our fault. I asked “What are we going to tell me parents?” she said just tell them we hit a cow. We drove home mortified of what was going to happen when we got back. Deciding we would face my parents together we headed in the house, needless to say my friend went in the house but decided to run straight for my room and hide. My parents were not happy but they were not too mad about the whole situation. It leads me to believe that honesty upfront is the best way to go even if you are scared to tell.
Basketball is a major sport where I grew up. Growing up in a small town we began playing basketball in the fourth grade. I played all throughout middle school and high school until my senior year in high school. Transferring schools in the seventh grade was an easy transition besides when it came to basketball. Playing all sports I thought my coach would be no different than any other coach I had before, turns out I was wrong. Coaches all have their own types of coaching and personalities, yet most coaches have a sense of what is right and wrong. My coach and I ended up not getting along because of various reasons. I ended up not going out for basketball my senior year, yet my principle and superintendent came and tried to convince me that I was making the wrong decision and that I would regret it. My parents loved watching all their kids in sports but they understood what I went through and told me do what you want and do not think of anyone else when it comes to making your decision. Even though the principle and superintendent tried to lure me into going out I stood up for what I know was right and stand by my decision. It makes me believe that you need to stand up for what you believe in no matter how many people do not believe in you or your decision.
Small towns come with traditions that do not change easily and they die hard. One of the traditions I was involved in was Homecoming Royalty, I was voted on to the Homecoming Queen. I was the well liked, quiet one in high school but I thought winning would be a longshot. The girls that were maybe the more outgoing and mean to the under classmates did not make it. Many people believe that homecoming queen is a superficial title and that you have to be high maintenance and “fake” to win it. What I learned is that being who you are is the most important thing you can do even growing up in a small town where people talk a lot.